Fraternity sorority parties?

i think its different for different place.s the 4yr university i went to was horrid with the frat/sor parties. it was a big drunk fest and evryone ended up sleeping with all the other people. I dated a frat guy and its hard. I wasnt in a sorority so i was frowned upon, tehy wanted him with one of them..so differnt things for different places. Hopefully where you are will be good fun, not drunken, crazed, brothels. ;)